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Hello,

First and foremost, I'm a 56 year old married man in an open relationship with the full support of my wonderful wife. Honesty is very important to us. That's the only way to make a relationship last.

The thing you need to know about me is that I'm . . . I would like to say "funny". Yes, that's what I would like to say. I've also been called irritating, a smart-ass, and "the guy that needs to shut the hell up." In fact, if we become friends I guarantee you will say something along those lines to me at some point in our relationship. I use humor as a way to endure some of the less pleasant aspects of life, so, you know . . . My humor is like my heart - sweet and very dark. And usually self-deprecating.

I love to cook, garden, enjoy the outdoors, and I'm a big fan of music. I like everything from Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson to Tool, Pink Floyd, Primus, most Grunge, and also Show-tunes. I'm a little eclectic. My favorite authors are Kurt Vonnegut, Issac Asimov, Ray Bradbury, Douglas Adams, Clive Barker. I love movies and TV. Some of my favorite series right now are Preacher, Game of Thrones, Archer, It's Always Sunny, Westworld, and of course, The Walking Dead. I'm also way too much into Rick and Morty. Way too much. I game a bit. Currently still wandering the Fallout universe,saving one settlement at a time, as well as Skyrim, and for a change, maybe some Stardew Valley to calm me down. I play some FPS - CoD, Halo, etc. I'm also a distance swimmer. I swim 1.5 to 2 miles a day. Several times a week. In the summer I compete in some Open Water competitions around the US. I'm doing the Sandpoint Bridge Swim this summer. Ask me about swimming from Alcatraz sometime. :)

I don't smoke, but do vape on occasion. I'm a social drinker, but, in the right circumstances, I can certainly drink enough to make me regret it in the morning. I'm very 420 friendly.

Oh! I also love motorcycles. I ride . . . a lot. I have many, many miles in the seat of a bike. Not all at once for God's sake. It's been a life-long pursuit.. :) Although, I did do a marathon drive one time, leaving San Francisco at 9 AM, drove straight through, and arrived in Seattle at 11 PM, stopping only for gas and Red Bull. I was a tad jittery by the time I got home. Almost an Iron Butt Ride, but not quite.

I'm definitely a Dom, and have been all my life.
I'm more of an erotic, sensualist. I like the protocol, the rules and rituals of a scene. I like orgasm control and denial, impact play, toys, bondage. I'm really excited to learn Shabari - such a beautiful art form. I've come to believe that I'm more of a Trainer than a traditional Dom. I'm looking for long, or short-term play partners. I have no interest in a 24/7 dynamic, Slave, (Well, I do have a birthday coming up), nor a romantic relationship. I like to 'teach a women the ropes' so to speak, and then would love to help them find their "forever Dom"

I'm intelligent, creative, and I treasure women. I believe the best sex takes place in the mind. Safe, sane, and consensual play is the best, and I place the comfort and safety of my partners as my priority. The power exchange of the Dom/Sub relationship drives me crazy. In a good way.
That's not to say that I don't have a ton of rules, and punishments, with rewards to go with them. My ultimate goal with power play is my partner's pleasure. Oh, I have a bit of an oral fixation as well, so women beware, I love, love, love to give. :)

I don't accept random friend request, but if we've talked or met please feel free to message me.

I think I'll close with my favorite quote from one of my favorite authors. It has served me well in this life:

"But it never got weird enough for me."
Hunter S. Thompson.

Although, to be honest, sometimes it definitely did.

Scorpio

Athletic

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Committed Relationships

Chest

Visible Tattoo

Cat, Fish

No

College Degree

Self-employed

Computers / Electronic

Yes - But Non Tobacco

Yes - Socially

Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing

Reading, Music, Movies, Internet, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends

Cool

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Raunchy

Cartoons, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Animation, Horror

Wit, Spontaneity, Empathy, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Friend, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage