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I Originally joined this site just to find somebody to spank.Currently That being said, i would still like to find at least one naughty young lady or woman that either needs or enjoys being spanked enough that my collection of spanking supplies does not sit and gather dust.

If a romantic type relationship develops from that then I would be okay with it. However if there is no possibility of such a relationship and I just find somebody that either needs or desires regular spanking then that too is okay.

I am fundamentally honest and do my best to practice good communication skills. Given the potential risk of impact play. I expect anybody that will be on the receiving end of any spanking I do to also be honest with me and try to communicate clearly.

Because of this I will state to any reading this profile that unless we are pursuing some form of Romantic Relationship. I will not have sex with you nor will I promise not to spank or become romantically involved with anybody else.

I will however promise to keep the details of anything we do to myself unless you have given me explicit permission for those to be shared with others.

I also will not intentionally harm you, do note that will not harm does not mean their will not be pain and soreness. I define harm as something that may require outside medical attention.

I have never broken the skin of somebody I have spanked nor do I actually want to. I have left bruises that have lasted for weeks but I can not remember any time when I left bruises in which the spankee was not warned about the possibility and accepted the fact that bruising may occur.

I have received First Aid and CPR training and keep a first aid kit in my toy bag at all times. I have never had to use it but it has been on hand and should always be available if I am giving a spanking.

I am not any form of professional but there has been some degree of spanking in all of my relationships for the last ten years and I have spanked at some fetish parties I have attended. The fact I have been so involved with spanking without ever needing my first aid kit is something I am proud of and I would like to keep that record.

Because of this I will not do any spanking without a Safeword. I do not care if it is a partner I have had for years. I still expect them to have and use a Safeword if needed. It has seldom been needed but I still feel more comfortable knowing it is there.

I have a decent collection of spanking implements including paddles( Leather and Wood in addition to a bathbrush), straps(including a couple of belts) ,crops, canes, and a couple of floggers. I usually prefer to use the straps or canes but will use a paddle if trying to make a lesson stick or it is a strong preference of the spankee.

I like the marks from using a cane and the strap stings greatly but does not usually mark and the redness fades quickly. Paddles tend to bruise which is normally only desired when giving a punishment.

Unless not doing so is a strong preference of the spankee I prefer to end any spanking with my hand over her bare butt and the application of aftercare lotion.

With romantic partners I also like to cuddle after giving them a spanking. However I respect that it is not usually appropriate for a non-romantic partner.

That concludes the long section on spanking tastes. Hopefully it has not scared anybody away but this is a spanking themed site so I wanted to get that information covered in much greater detail then I would do elsewhere.

For any potential Romantic Relationships. Most interests are below but I also normally attend a weekly Tabletop game.


I am basically Christen with a belief in the supernatural I do not attend church as I find the idea of needing to go to a specific building to speak with God, silly at best.

Thank you for reading.

Vissen

Gemiddeld

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Blank

Single

Nee

Niet Zeker

Ogen

Met Littekens

Iets Anders

Kat, Hond

Nee

MBO

Deeltijd

Iets Anders

Night Staff Supervisor

Met Ouder(s), Met Huisdier(en)

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Stil

Opmerkzaam, Gereserveerd, Verlegen

Computers, Koken, Dansen, Internet, Spellen, Films, Muziek, Lezen, Religie / Spiritualiteit, Tv

Met Vrienden zijn, Videospellen spelen, Een boek lezen, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen

Depends on the partner. However it would be nice if the first date included her being spanked preferably on the bare butt.

Vriendelijk, Cool, Obscuur

Christelijk

Nooit

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Obscuur

Tekenfilms, Documentaires, Drama's, Educatief, Films, Reality

Actie, Science Fiction, Drama

Ambient, Klassiek, Electonische Muziek , Metal, Pop, Rock

Klassiek , Computers, Fantasy, Fictie, Educatief, Poëzie, Bovennatuurlijk, Wetenschappelijk, Satire, Science Fiction, Technisch

Generally reading, video games, role-playing games. I have a fair amount of other interests but they require a partner of some sort and are sometimes only present for certain kinds of other people.

Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Intelligentie

Not really looking for a Soulmate here which is what the prompt suggests. However for anybody I will interact with from this site. I would like honesty and a willingness to tell me details even if i might not like what is being said.

For anybody I am likely to be spanking I would like some idea of there tolerances and experience.

For something that is just based on spanking. A nice butt and medium to high tolerance for pain is preferred. I am capable of spanking somebody with a low tolerance for pain but it is not usually worth going out of my way to see somebody for a spanking that at best makes their butt pink and tingle for a couple of hours.

If a Potential Romantic Partner. I would like to have some amount of common ground on which to build a relationship. Already have a potential Romantic Partner i found here. Only looking for Spankees at the moment.

Vriend, Date, Iets Anders, Bondage