Leo

English, Spanish, Portuguese

Have a spanking-sized hole in my spiritual-material lifeworld and I am looking to live my desires more often. Lifetime spanko, switch, born hard-wired to receive but learned to love to give, especially in ritualized domestic role-play with all the magic of well-articulated/rendered anticipation, ceremony, and spankophlle accoutrements. OTK-spanking is my Ithaca on this Odyssey, but I have also enjoyed (and am open to) other forms of submission and domination.

Repression is the very condition of pleasure.

"The writer and the psychoanalyst are driven by the pursuit of a truth that can be known only when repressed and punished, and hence, they are driven, inevitably, by an (unconscious) desire to be punished."

"The sexual practitioners of feminine masochism generally extend the masquerade to include the person inflicting the pain or humiliation as well, and indeed the entire 'scene' of the erotic adventure, in effect remaking the world" (Silverman, 60).

"Beating comes from Freud’s use of schlagen in German, which is an odd choice, because in addition to describing a violent blow, it also suggests the beats of music—more than other English words like hit, or strike. Freud seems to be telling us about how reality imprints itself on us, how it enters our senses—and also, how we absorb culture. It happens in beats, in blows, in morsels, fragments—never all at once, and rarely a complete process. He is drawing our attention to the linguistic, figurative, sensorial aspects of a life present in tonality, mood, aesthetic qualities—items that are meant to be felt and thus go beyond cognitive understanding. So beating is also about the way a body absorbs."

"Who would believe this childish discipline, received [...] from the hand of a woman of thirty, should influence my propensities, my desires, my passions, for the rest of my life, and that in quite a contrary sense from what might naturally have been expected? The very incident that inflamed my senses, gave my desires such an extraordinary turn, that, confined to what I had already experienced, I sought no further, and, with blood boiling with sensuality almost from my birth, preserved my purity beyond the age when the coldest constitutions lose their sensibility; long tormented, without knowing by what, I gazed on every handsome woman with delight; imagination incessantly brought their charms to my remembrance, only to transform them into so many Miss Lamberciers. Even after having attained the marriageable age this odd taste still continued and drove me nearly to depravity and madness." -- Jean-Jacques Rousseau

On the name, Leo Bloom: "I meant only the spanking idea."

MRS BELLINGHAM: Me too.
MRS YELVERTON BARRY: Me too.
(Several highly respectable Dublin ladies hold up improper letters received from Bloom)
THE HONOURABLE MRS MERVYN TALBOYS: (Stamps her jingling spurs in a sudden paroxysm of sudden fury) I will, by the God above me. I’ll scourge the pigeonlivered cur as long as I can stand over him. I’ll flay him alive.
BLOOM: (His eyes closing, quails expectantly) Here? (He squirms) Again! (He pants cringing) I love the danger.
THE HONOURABLE MRS MERVYN TALBOYS: Very much so! I’ll make it hot for you. I’ll make you dance Jack Latten for that.
MRS BELLINGHAM: Tan his breech well, the upstart! Write the stars and stripes on it!
MRS YELVERTON BARRY: Disgraceful! There’s no excuse for him! A married man!
BLOOM: All these people. I meant only the spanking idea. A warm tingling glow without effusion. Refined birching to stimulate the circulation.
THE HONOURABLE MRS MERVYN TALBOYS: (Laughs derisively) O, did you, my fine fellow? Well, by the living God, you’ll get the surprise of your life now, believe me, the most unmerciful hiding a man ever bargained for. You have lashed the dormant tigress in my nature into fury.

Ulysses, James Joyce

Aries

Athletic

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Single

No

Yes

Arms

Visible Tattoo

Brown

No pets

No

University Degree

Full-time

Teacher / Education

Professor

$60,000USD To $74,999USD

With Roomate(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

No

Jock

Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing

Family, Exercising, Reading, Sports, Learning, Movies, Dancing, Travel, Cooking, Volunteering

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Extreme Sports, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Museum

Connecting with fellow spankos on the internet, being unashamed about our kinks, messaging with clear communication, laughing, flirting, becoming friends, meeting, moving sometimes slowly sometimes quickly towards fun, erotic, sometimes disciplinary sometimes sensual, always consensual spanking-fun and delights.

Friendly, Cool, Goofy

Spiritual But Not Religious

Very Liberal

To live happy, joyous, and free -- and to strive to create the conditions for others to do the same.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, I Don't Like Tv, I Wish I Had A Tv, Sports, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller

Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk

News, Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Sports, I'm An Author, Supernatural

Wit, Power, Spontaneity, Oddities, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Kind honest souls seeking to live their truths and to make the world a little bit better.

Friend, Date, Other, Domination